Your request, "恳请羽失及Eddie联名向老方建议", is based on your personal moral ground. In a reasonable society, moral ground should not have any binding. Otherwise, forcing individuals' moral standard on other people is always a bad thing. As for government, that is different. Comparing to individuals, a established government controls a lot more resources than individuals; and has a much more power than individuals. If government is allowed to control press, you ended up a country like China. However, individuals will never be able to acquire the same power as a state.

It is not about the "bottom line," or the motivation, it is about the outcome and impact. The internet censorship impacts billions of people, which bears no comparison in banning two users in a private chat room.