送交者: mangolasi 于 2005-9-12, 16:45:30:
回答: I agree with you to some extent 由 自如 于 2005-9-12, 15:57:22:
with the people like me. But "should"? What's the justification for doing so? I don't see it. Not everyone has this kind of strong emotional bond. To them, may be a comfortable life/acceptance to the "mainstream" is valued more highly. I don't see any dispute about ethics involved here.
But your interpretation of Rao's motives suggests that you understand my "rule of thumb to be a good lady" well, very well.
I am not a good lady, hence my interpretation is much darker than you.