You have your points. But I am answering what you said

送交者: 蟑脑丸于 2010-10-30, 16:34:28:

回答: i have a better one 由 kma 于 2010-10-30, 16:18:59:

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even if parents don't like to get inot americna life, they will be forced to do so as kids grow up

I have seen many Chinese parents (those chinese who are colleagues and friends of mine who tought their kids in anti-American ways.